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CRISIS IN MARRIAGE: AN AFTERMATH OF MISMANAGED PROBLEMS In the typical African mythology which has been overtaken by time, crisis in marriage like other life challenges, is more often than not, perceived as bad luck, a test or an affliction, which may be the handiwork of enemies, spirits of the ancestors or the gods ofContinue reading “CRISIS IN MARRIAGE: AN AFTERMATH OF MISMANAGED PROBLEMS”

MARRIAGE WITHOUT LOVE In an ideal marriage, one man unites with one woman to become a united entity – what otherwise may be described as “one flesh” in biblical parlance. Marriage may be described as a union – a union of two hearts that beat as one.The marriage journey begins when a man sets sailContinue reading “MARRIAGE WITHOUT LOVE”

BE A WISE WOMAN; BUILD YOUR HOUSE Your wisdom as a woman or lack of it , can be seen in the way you manage your home. According to wise King Solomon, “a wise woman builds her house but the foolish one pulls it down with her hands.” How you handle your home speaks volumesContinue reading “BE A WISE WOMAN; BUILD YOUR HOUSE”

MIND WHOSE COUNSEL YOU FOLLOW “…a person who listens to advice is wise” – Proverbs 12:15 It is wise to listen to advice. It is also wise to ensure that you are not misled while trying to seek advice.Advice or counsel is like medicine, it gives the expected result when properly applied but when misapplied,Continue reading “MIND WHOSE COUNSEL YOU FOLLOW”

Love is critical in every marital Relationship. Money is equally  a necessity in a relationship. However, relationships may exist with or without money but definitely not without love except such a relationship is hypocritical. Be that as it may, it is noteworthy that money adds taste to relationship and can make it colourful. But, then,Continue reading “BETWEEN LOVE AND MONEY”

I have witnessed a great deal of irony in this sphere of existence which is common among men.: People run away and sometimes quite far from the the things they are craving(if not dying for)and run towards the very things they dread. People who desire to be rich detest hardwork; people who seek knowledge forsakeContinue reading “IRONY”

YOUR REACTION COULD BE A THREAT TO GOOD AND HAPPY RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNER It is natural for people to react to actions or inactions that affect them. This plays out in relationships where reactions may be used to express joy or sadness, to show approval or disapproval, satisfaction or dissatisfaction, or deployedContinue reading “YOUR REACTION COULD BE A THREAT TO GOOD AND HAPPY RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNER”

NEVER SEVER THE FLOW OF COMMUNICATION BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE Communication is the soul of a relationship. Parties in a relationship should always maintain a steady flow of communication. Communication helps a couple to stay connected even when they are far apart. It enables them to express their love and feelings and by soContinue reading “NEVER SEVER THE FLOW OF COMMUNICATION BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE”

MARRIAGES DO NOT FAIL DUE TO IMMEDIATE CHALLENGES FACED, MARRIAGES FAIL DUE TO WHAT PARTIES IN MARRIAGE MAKE OUT OF THE CHALLENGES Why are parties in marriage quick at giving in to failed marriage and relationship rather than giving their best to save ailing marriages from failure? Marriage failure should not be a deliberate choiceContinue reading “MARRIAGES DO NOT FAIL DUE TO IMMEDIATE CHALLENGES FACED, MARRIAGES FAIL DUE TO WHAT PARTIES IN MARRIAGE MAKE OUT OF THE CHALLENGES”