NEVER SEVER THE FLOW OF COMMUNICATION BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE

NEVER SEVER THE FLOW OF COMMUNICATION BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE

Communication is the soul of a relationship. Parties in a relationship should always maintain a steady flow of communication. Communication helps a couple to stay connected even when they are far apart. It enables them to express their love and feelings and by so doing, keep the love they have between them alive. It also offfers an avenue for a couple to share their needs including deepest needs, craving and expectations. It makes for easy resolution of conflicts and misunderstanding. As a matter of fact, a couple that communicates freely, have less tendency to engage in conflicts and even when they do, they easily resolve it. Such couples have better understanding of each other and know how best to touch their partner’s heart. Communication between couples is different from other forms of communication in a way – it is or should be a heart- to – communication. As such, it should be made as romantic as possible. There should be a difference between an interaction between your neighbour or costumer and one between you and your spouse. Without knowing who you are speaking with, a listener should correctly guess that you are speaking with the love of your life. Your words when speaking with your lover should be seasoned with grace and coated with honey. Your communication should make his/her heart merry. Your interaction should be fun. It should create a good and happy mood. It should evoke laughter and sometimes deep emotional feelings especially when you are close together. One of the worst mistakes people make is to severe Communication as a way of expressing how they feel. This can be damaging to a relationship and to the family in so many ways. The break in Communication may lead to a problem or complication of a problem which may affect children’s welfare or may even be life threatening. Never sever communication. Keep it flowing. Talk to your spouse. Call her on phone as regularly as possible. Look into her eyes (non verbal communication), share love notes and short messages. Make time to discuss freely. There is no need for topic – discuss all manner. Of course you should pick topics when necessary like when discussing home needs, family welfare and business. Sometimes, it should just be about two of you. Do not wait for your partner to initiate it, initiate yourself and today.